Well, I’ve definitely done more reading this month than last month, so at least I’m feeling accomplished in that respect. Life does happen between the binding, as I like to say, and there are a lot of things going on in my little world. I think they are all good for the most part, but only time will tell.
I’ve been very open and vulnerable in my blog posts and I plan to keep it that way. It would be a lie to act like everything is wonderful all the time and it’s the harder things in life that tend to shape us as individuals. All of this to say: read on for a little vulnerability.
My dad is currently in the hospital and will get to come home tonight. He had his prostate removed yesterday to get rid of the cancer that is in his body. The doctor felt good about the surgery and were able to spend more time on it due to not having any other surgeries to do aside from his. He will have a follow up appointment next week and another appointment on December 9th to ensure the cancer is gone. I would say this is all in all a positive report on my dad. It feels great to know that his cancer is likely gone and will just need close monitoring now.
Coincidentally, while my father was in surgery yesterday, I was busy having a procedure done as well. Again, this is a positive thing and only time will tell if it stays positive or not. I am fervently praying that it remains positive!
Another positive thing is that my husband and I took a short trip to Door County, Wisconsin and it was absolutely beautiful. We hiked, kayaked, rode bikes through the woods, and ate well. We even got to see some family members from a safe distance on our way home. I’m so glad we were able to take that trip. It’s a place we’ve wanted to go for about as long as we’ve known each other and a place we first heard about together.
The only negative thing going on is money. So much money has been spent this month. I knew it would be an expensive month as we had some home projects and a trip. I hadn’t planned, however, on the cost of another procedure. On the plus side, we’ve gotten a new bathtub (which I love), light fixtures in rooms where there were none before, and we now have working lighting outside! We’ve gone on our trip and soon our roof will be fixed, where there was some major water damage before. This is all good, it’s just costly and has us watching our pennies a little more closely now. Such is life. I’m just happy, we’ve been fortunate enough to cover these costs. Any time I stress about money, I am reminded that it is mentioned more than 800 times in the Bible. While it’s not good to be in debt, I don’t want money to rule my life or give me undue stress. Everything will be better soon.
Now let’s talk books! I’ve read quite a few so far this month. Seven to be exact, and I’m currently reading two and listening to one. I’m hoping for double digits by the end of this month, but I also hoped to finish a book during Fall break (usually my biggest reading time of the year), and I didn’t finish a single one. To be fair, we had a lot going on.
The first book I read this month was The Mother-In-Law by Sally Hepworth. I was really engrossed in this book. The back and forth between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law was very interesting, and I kept being shocked by how the mother-in-law acted. She was a fascinating, but very unlikeable character. Unfortunately, the mystery’s end was not as shocking and left a bit of a sour taste in my mouth. Initially, I felt like this book would be a 4 or 5 star read, but it started to fall flat. One thing that really bothered me about this book was the portrayal of a woman with fertility issues. It hit a little too close to home, but my real problem is that they made this woman seem absolutely crazy all due to her infertility. That felt harsh and unbelievable. 3/5.
Next up was A Nearly Normal Family by M.T. Edvardsson, a book that was marketed as a legal thriller, which I was very excited about. Unfortunately, this book was not really a legal thriller at all. The courtroom scenes didn’t even start until 3/4 of the way through the book. The ending, again, fell flat. It just didn’t feel clever like so many good thriller endings are. While the author’s writing kept me reading, this book felt pretty forgettable. 3/5.
Then I read The Last Story of Mina Lee by Nancy Jooyoun Kim, a book that at some points, captivated me with it’s use of language, however, the storyline was not captivating. This may be due to recently reading a book about a mother figure’s relationship with a daughter, which this book was also about, but I just could not get into this book. The chapters change perspectives from Mina to her daughter Margot. I definitely found Mina more compelling, but again, this book just fell flat and felt forgettable. 3/5.
After some three star reads, I finally got to a book that caused a reaction within me: Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb. This nonfiction book takes a look at a therapist, the counseling she gives, and the counseling she receives. I really loved that this book shows us all so deeply human. We are so flawed, yet there is something redeeming in all of us. There were a lot of little life nuggets in here that really stayed with me. There were also little pieces of psychology history/fact sprinkled throughout and as someone who really enjoys psychology, I loved that aspect of the book. 4/5.
Book 5 was Eleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell, which I listened to. I loved the audio actors by the way and really loved that there was a male and female to add to the characters. The characters, by the way, were so perfectly thought out. I did get frustrated with them at times, but then I just had to remind myself that they were teenagers. This book focuses on first love and how intoxicating it is, but it also shows the relationship between two outcasts. The chemistry was strong and everything felt so raw and real. There were also just so many beautiful lines that didn’t feel cheesy to me, but accurate for two outcasts to share. The ending felt rushed and I didn’t love it, so this one gets 4 stars for me, but they are 4 very shiny, bright stars! 4/5.
I also listened to Leave the World Behind, a book that fully enchanted me. Author, Rumaan Alam left me in a book hangover for sure. I read a sample of this book and felt like I wouldn’t be into the language, so I opted to listen instead to see if I could look past the heavy vocabulary and I’m so glad I did. The book focuses on two families forced to share a home for the end of the world and asks Can any person be trusted? How would you spend your last minutes? I know a lot of people haven’t loved this book. Some were disappointed by the end, but I loved it. For me, there was no other way for this book to end. Leave the World Behind was a cerebral atmospheric novel that wholly pulled me in. It made me think of that quote “This is the way the world ends, not with a bang, but with a whimper.” Think of all of the things we’ve experienced, forest fires, intense hurricanes, advanced warfare, extreme weather, etc. Those are the bangs. By the time the world actually ends, it likely will be a whimper. I don’t really think the world is ending, but I enjoyed reading this novel and just how deep it really was. Not only is this a 5 star read for me, but it is also a top contender of mine for best book I’ve read all year! 5/5.
My last read was Modern Lovers by Emma Straub. I tried and tried to get into this book, but I couldn’t. The story focuses on the relationship between former band mates and the lack of one of them in modern day. The novel is structured in a way that shows the past and present pretty clearly. Unfortunately, I just did not like any of the characters. They all felt like has-been hipsters who never got around to growing up, but might just might be begrudgingly doing it in present day. I just wasn’t into it. I was more annoyed than anything, while reading this one. 2/5.
I’m currently listening to My Dark Vanessa, reading Betty, and The Invisible Life of Addie Larue. All of which are amazing so far. I hope to have them finished by the end of the month!
Happy reading y’all!